puhgs:

really tho straight guys will go on and on about how uncomfortable it makes them when gay guys hit on them but lets be fucking honest how many times have u seen a guy continue to hit on another guy after hes visibly uncomfortable vs. how many times a straight guy has continued to hit on a girl after shes visibly uncomfortable 

I am surprised by how much sex I have had in my life that I didn’t want to have. Not exactly what’s considered “real” rape, or “date” rape, although it is a kind of rape of the spirit - a dishonest portrayal or distortion of my own desire in order to appease another person.

I said yes because I felt it was too much trouble to say no. I said yes because I didn’t want to have to defend my “no,” qualify it, justify it - deserve it. I said yes because I thought I was so ugly and fat that I should just take sex every time it was offered, because who knew when it would be offered again. I said yes to partners I never wanted in the first place, because to say no at any point after saying yes for so long would make our entire relationship a lie, so I had to keep saying yes in order to keep the “no” I felt a secret. That is such a messed-up way to live, such an awful way to love.

So these days, I say yes only when I mean yes. It does require some vigilance on my part to make sure I don’t just go on sexual automatic pilot and let people do whatever. It forces me to be really honest with myself and others. It makes me remember that loving myself is also about protecting myself and defending my own borders. I say yes to me.

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— Margaret Cho, “Yes Means Yes”
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My god, do you learn."
— C. S. Lewis
Poverty is arguably the oldest and most widely tolerated form of genocide."
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If they don’t like you…who the fuck cares?"
— Sara Quin
And he’s done dumb stuff. If it was your friend pissing into a mop box then you would be laughing, but because it’s Justin Bieber, then it’s really bad."
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a horror movie called ‘the thirst’ starring people who tag their selfies w their sexuality 

posttsecret:

“I subconsciously judge all my republican family and friends.”

posttsecret:

“I subconsciously judge all my republican family and friends.”

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you may think im an asshole but as soon as you get to know me you realize that first impressions are right and i am an asshole 

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#yep